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- We cherish all your concerns.
Nationwide concern contest!
A charismatic and charming actor, Kim Min-joon.
- Hello.
This is Kim Min-joon.
- So handsome.
- She successfully debuted on her own.
Singer, Gong Minzy.
- You've become prettier.
- They're more charming as you get to know them.
Sol-bin and ZN from Laboum.
- Hello.
- How are you feeling right now?
This is your first time on our show.
- I'm really nervous right now,
but I was relieved to see Tae-jun.
- Do you guys know each other?
- You two must be close.
- Yes, we both like to ride scooters. - Scooter.
- That's how we ended up as friends.
- Who else do you hang out with
that we might not expect?
- Kim Rae-won who lives in my neighborhood.
- Oh, Kim Rae-won. - Kim Rae-won?
- He lives nearby. - Who else?
- Ji Chang-wook, who Tae-jun likes very much.
- What do handsome people do when they get together?
- We just...
- We just pretend to look handsome.
- Is your group name from
the movie 'La Boum' starring Sophie Marceau?
- That's right.
- 'La boum' means 'party' in French,
so we're also wish to show our charms on stage. - That's right.
Laboum reminds me of my nickname.
- What is it? - Petite.
- Meaning 'cute'.
- Petite. - Oh, petite.
- A nickname is what someone else calls you.
- You can make one for yourself.
- That's not a nickname.
- Isn't it pretty? Petite petite petite.
- We should hear your new song.
- La boum came out with a new song, right?
What song is it?
- The song highlights Laboum's maturity.
- Maturity.
- Going for a fresh sexy feel. - Fresh sexy.
- Min-joon, are you happy just by looking at them?
- You should watch your facial expression.
- Min-joon, this is better than staying at home, right?
- Nice.
- Good job!
- Minzy, how do you feel
when you see your junior colleagues dancing and singing like this?
- They look so cute and I'm so proud of them,
because I debuted at their age too.
- But aren't you relieved that
you're still the best dancer?
- I actually can't do cutesy things.
- Really...
Please show us your new song.
- Minzy.
- Cue music.
- She's good.
- Let's take a look at our 3 concerns.
- 'A dangerous man'
'Life is too difficult' and 'Suffocating love'.
- Here is the first concern.
A female in her 20s sent us this concern.
Hello.
I'm a mother in my 20s, who has a
4-year old son, 3-year old daughter and I'm expecting a baby this August.
She got so much done in her 20s.
What did I do all this time...
Every day, I have to
face a life-threatening risk.
It's because of my husband who turns in to a devil while driving.
- *Honk*
"Hey, you piece of #$%@."
"Drive faster!"
"Watch where you're driving!"
- Even to an elderly...
- "Why the @&$# are you cutting in front of me?"
- "Hey you."
"I don't know how old you are,
but you need to watch your language."
- "#&%# you!"
- Wow.
- "So what if you're old?"
"I'm old enough to have a son!"
- So scary. - "Stop acting like an idiot and stay home.
- "You little brat."
"Is that how you treat an elderly?"
The problem is that he says all those things
when my kids and my pregnant self is on the car with him.
- Yikes, when the kids are there?
- Really?
- I'm so scared and worried that
something terrible will happen.
Please help me protect my family.
She sent us this concern.
- He really is a dangerous man.
- Min-joon, have you ever been like this when you drive?
- I have some anger management issue as well.
- Anger management issue?
- Did you send this concern?
- When do you feel the most angry?
- When someone is not following the basic rules.
For example, when someone
cuts in front of the line when
cars are lined up for left turn. - Cutting in front.
- That makes me a little angry.
- But even if someone's fault,
you just let it pass if it's an elderly.
You don't pick a fight with an elderly.
- I think he's the type that completely loses his temper.
- Right.
Let's welcome the guest.
- Please sit here.
- Your husband might get angry
if you hold his hands.
Can you explain to us
how your husband normally drives?
- He drives like he's on a race track,
and he never gives the right of way to anyone else.
He drives at 140km/h at a 60 km/h maximum speed limit area.
- It's like racing.
- Wait, he drives at 140 km/h?
- Yes.
- When he's driving with you and the kids?
- Yes.
So when he drives that fast,
the car would shake...
- You must be like this all the time? - Yes.
Since I'm nervous all the time while I'm pregnant
so my stomach gets tense a lot.
- Yes, right. - Really.
- Do you ever try to stop him
when he's driving like that?
- If I try to stop him,
he'll get angry and he'll try to scare me.
He would do a sudden stop at a red light,
and my body would swerve to the front.
Or... - Why does he do that?
- Just because you told him to slow down?
- Yes.
He's showing me that he's angry. - What's up with that?
- He would drive close to the next car,
just to scare me.
Sometimes I feel short of my breath,
and I tell him to slow down because I can't breathe,
then he says "Oh, we should go home faster then."
"I should drive faster."
- That's harsh. - And he drives faster.
- We're getting more angry listening to how he acts.
- Tell us more. - Tell us the details.
- A truck driver was trying to cut in front of us,
and he didn't let the truck driver cut in and it turned into a fight.
The truck driver put up his middle finger,
and he moved into another lane.
And my husband got angry again...
- So he chased the truck? - He chased the truck.
- Yikes.
- It was impossible to find the truck,
but he searched for it all around town.
- He searched for the truck when it was gone? - When it was gone.
- Wow. - And...
- Where did he find the truck?
- It was parked in front of a restaurant.
- He found the truck.
- My husband confronted the truck driver,
and it turned into a fight...
- Your kids saw that? The fighting?
- Yes.
When the kids watch their dad fight... - That's bad for their education.
- Kids would cry.
- Yes, it's startling.
- I would stay in the car trying to calm the crying baby.
- What is he like when he's not driving?
- Normally, he's very slow and relaxed.
And he's a friendly dad to the kids.
- So he changes only when he's driving?
- Normally, he politely asks me
when he needs something. - But he's violent in the car?
- Only in the car.
- Does your husband drive a lot?
- He delivers goods from the market by truck. - He's a delivery driver?
- Is he a delivery driver?
Then he must be angry all day.
- Not just when he's driving to and from his work.
- The outlaw on the road.
Let's meet the husband.
*Honk Honk*
Where are you? - Hello.
- Oh, but he seems so nice.
- What happened to your hand?
Did you get injured while driving?
- I cut myself while preparing the vegetables.
- Do you swear at vegetables too?
- Why do you drive so violently?
Your wife says that you're gentle when you're not driving.
- I think it's my instinct in the driver's seat.
- But I don't get it.
- On purpose...
- Why did you search for that truck?
- The truck driver didn't even signal before cutting in,
and he was on the phone while he raised his middle finger at me.
So I had to find him.
I asked him "What do you think you're doing?"
I told him that my family almost got injured because of him.
And he tried to fist fight.
It ended when my wife stepped in,
and he admitted his fault.
- Have you ever cut in front of someone
after that car cut in front of you
without signaling?
- Of course he did.
- I don't do that.
- You don't do that?
- I just get next to the car and roll down the window...
- And then swear.
- So all you need is an apology?
- Asking why they didn't signal.
- But what if you're swearing at them,
but they just drive along,
and they can't hear you?
What would you do then?
- That never happened.
- So you're okay when someone just
rolls down the window and says "Sorry"?
- I just say one more thing.
- One more thing?
- I tell them to signal the next time.
- Then your wife wouldn't be so concerned.
That's not how you say it, right?
- No.
- He probably swears.
- But why do you need to
speed every day?
- I run a produce business with my parents,
and I'm trying to deliver the vegetables while they're fresh...
- That's a good mindset.
- Because I get complaints when the delivery is delayed.
- But weren't you late because you were in a fight once?
- Many times.
- See?
You're probably more late because of the fighting,
not because of driving slowly.
Don't you think so?
- That's why I drive faster.
To shorten the time because I fought.
- But think about it this way.
What if your wife driving,
and someone swore at her?
- I would get angry.
But she's never experienced it, so...
- So it doesn't matter. - Does it need to happen for you to realize it?
- I heard that you tried to threaten your wife by driving violently
when the kids were in your car. - Right.
- Minzy, it's okay.
- Because she keeps nagging me when I'm driving just fine,
so I just tried to scare her a little.
- If she tells you to drive slower,
you can just say "Okay" and drive slower.
- I realized that what I did was wrong,
but I'd forget about it after a while.
- He speeds not to be late,
but don't you end up being more late because of these arguments?
- Yes, it actually takes more time because of the arguments.
One time, our kids had enteritis so we were on our way to the hospital.
And my husband caught a fight with a cab driver even then,
so our hospital appointment was canceled.
- He caught a fight even when the kids were sick? - Yes.
Our son once hit his head and he was bleeding.
It was a really urgent moment,
but I was more nervous that
he might get in a big fight.
Our son was crying.
- I don't understand how you got in a fight,
when your baby was sick.
- Even if someone catches a fight with you...
- You should just leave and
go to the hospital.
- But once you're in an argument, you should finish it.
- But your kid was sick.
- He had enteritis.
He was sick.
- Have you ever got in a big accident?
- A big accident. - Right.
- I never got in a big accident. - You didn't?
Then what about minor accidents? - He never got in an accident.
- Like a small accident.
- What do you mean you never got in an accident?
- Are you lying now?
On top of getting angry?
- One time he injured his head while he was driving alone.
So he went to the hospital and he had to take a 2-week treatment.
He said that we just need to get the car fixed and it wasn't a big deal.
Somehow I ended up looking at his texts.
It turns out that he got in a fist fight with another driver,
and he had to pay $2,000 in settlement fees because he broke the other driver's tooth.
- So rough. - Yikes.
- He should not go behind the wheels.
- I can't remember what happened...
- How can you not remember that?
- You had to pay $2,000 in settlement fees. - You hit him but
it wasn't violence?
- There were a lot of similar cases. - Similar cases.
- There were a lot of similar cases?
- Did you really pay $2,000 in settlement money?
Being in a fist fight.
- What happened?
- We got in a fight blaming each other.
I think his tooth was already broken.
- Why did you hide it from your wife?
- Because she might get mad.
- Right.
- Aren't you hiding something right now?
What about that arm? - I don't think it's from preparing the vegetables.
- No, this was all recorded on the surveillance camera.
- We're going to check.
- You can submit it as an evidence.
- Evidence...
Is this a police station?
- How much do you think you spent
on handling all the accidents so far? - We sound like an insurance company.
- During my 13 years of driving... - Even the ones you've been hiding.
- Car repair fees, insurance fees and settlement fees would add up to
about $40,000-$50,000?
- What a rough driver. - Yikes.
- He shouldn't be driving.
- You're a really rough driver. - That's enough to buy a car.
- Did you know about this?
Or is this your first time hearing it?
- I just found out.
- How do you feel?
- *Sigh*
All that money...
- What would you do with that money?
- I would buy clothes and toys for the kids.
He wouldn't let me buy toys for our kids because it's too expensive.
- Toys... - He won't let you buy toys for the kids?
- Really? - He won't.
He says that they'll get tired of it,
so I thought he valued money.
I had no idea he spent so much money.
- Yes, it doesn't make sense.
His actions contradict his words.
- If he's such a dangerous driver,
why didn't you try to drive
by yourself when the baby is sick?
- He doesn't let anyone else drive. - And he gets angry?
- Yes.
- Why won't you let
anyone else drive?
- Because there might be an accident.
- What?
- Because there might be an accident?
- I heard his acquaintances are here.
Who are they?
- His sister and friend are here.
- His sister.
- Hello.
- Can you understand your sister-in-law's concern?
- I think their marriage is a concern.
- Why didn't you stop them?
- They already had my niece.
- He was speeding on that too.
- Speeding on everything.
- There's a famous driving course in Daechung dam.
It is a very curvy road and
there's a cliff right beside the road.
He would drive at 90 to 100 km/h there as well.
- When you're with your parents? - Yes.
- Then what does your parents say?
- My mom would say,
"You bastard, are you trying to get us all killed?"
- Your mother has a strong personality too.
- *Sigh*
Really...
- Your brother's flaw.
- He also sings when he's driving. - What?
- He sings?
- Is he good?
- He closes his eyes while singing. - So dangerous.
- And driving dangerously...
- He sings as well? - Singing on top of bad driving.
- Why do you sing while driving?
The husband.
- I just get into the music
and sing along when it comes out on the radio.
- And when you get in a fight,
you roll down the window while driving.
- He drives every day,
so I think that his car
became a very private space for him.
So if anyone tries to trespass it...
- "This is my zone." - So if anyone provokes him...
- The stress... - It's evident because
he only turns violent in his car. - Right.
I'm going to ask his sister.
His wife said that he's normally very kind and gentle to his family.
- When he goes to the supermarket, he calls the family and
asks if there's anything we need.
But he just changes when he drives,
so it makes me surprised.
And...
- He was probably like that before he got married, right?
- Yes, and I... - Weren't there any accidents.
- There was this big accident
that only me and my brother knew about.
- Look at his face.
- Only me and my brother knew it.
And... - Look at him.
- His eyes are so big.
- He drives his car fast,
but he used to like drive even faster on his motorcycle.
An elementary school student jumped out in front of him,
and he drove into a wall trying to avoid hitting the child.
He broke his ligaments
and he broke his collar bone too.
He had to get a big surgery and stayed in the hospital for months.
- And your parents didn't know?
- He told them that
he just fell down the stairs.
But I knew all of this.
- Hey,
please grab the mic. - Okay.
- You said you never got in a big accident.
- While driving a car...
This was when I was riding a motorcycle.
- Oh, motorcycle.
So you would've said it if we asked about motorcycle accidents?
- I didn't think it was that bad...
So... - That's what you think.
- I was just trying not to hit the child. - Trying to avoid it.
- So I just fell on my own.
I don't drive motorcycles that much after that accident.
- His friend is also here today.
- Hello.
- What do you think about your friend's driving?
- There's more to it than we're talking about right now. - Really?
- So it's even worse?
- I thought I would die when I was in the car with him,
and I would swear at him because I'm so scared.
But he wouldn't listen.
He used to be a quiet and introverted person,
but he would change
when he's playing sports.
- He has strong desire for winning... - He has strong desire for winning.
- I guess he feels that when he's driving.
- When we were in our early 20s,
he was late for a gathering and
our friends poured soju in a large beer glass for him to drink.
- He drank all of it?
- He drank it.
And they were competing with each other and drank 13 bottles of soju.
- Wow.
- He drank so much...
It's a good thing he quit drinking now.
- He's risking his life for the sake of winning.
- I'm not sure, but there must be
a reason why he quit drinking, right? - There must've been a reason.
- His drinking habits...
I won't say much.
- So we asked an expert
about his situations.
The expert said that the husband has a high level of anger.
Losing the ability to control yourself while driving might have to do with
not being able to release the anger
that has been built up since childhood.
So you feel a sense of freedom while driving and go crazy.
This was the expert opinion.
- Have you ever tried getting some help?
- I looked into some therapy.
And I carefully mentioned it to him...
- But he would get angry, right?
- Yes.
He asked me why he should go there
when he doesn't have any problem.
He said that therapy is only for those who have problems.
- Yes.
So do you have some hope that
he might change after coming on this show?
- Yes. Normally he wouldn't even let me talk about it,
but right now, he has to listen to me talk.
So I hope he understands how I really feel
and realize how serious this is.
I'm more worried because this not only affects our family,
but it might affect other people as well.
- You'll be doomed if someone gets injured.
- Yes.
- Driving like that. - Right.
- Is there something that
you really want to say to your husband today?
- I have a heartbreaking memory,
and I think my parents will be sad to hear it as well.
I actually had two miscarriages after my first child. - Two miscarriages.
- Two miscarriages.
- One time when we were a newlywed,
we had a big fight in the car.
It was early in my pregnancy so I went to see the doctor,
and the doctor said that the baby's heart had stopped.
And my son heard it too.
Me and my husband cried a lot that day.
My husband...
- But the kids are healthy now
and growing up really well...
- After that I've been feeling
more stressed out about his driving.
And I felt so sorry for the baby and
at the same time I resented my husband so much.
After that, we promised not to fight.
But his driving habits stayed the same,
even after that... - He can't help himself.
- Yes, and since we have two kids now and another one to come,
I think he'd forgotten about what happened before.
- His habits came back. - Yes.
- Is it true that you promised yourself not to drive violently,
but forgot about it?
- I keep telling myself to fix it,
but my habits just come out unconsciously.
It drives me crazy because it happens just when I'm driving.
- Do you want to fix it?
- I came here today
because I want to fix it. - He wants to fix it.
- But why did you get mad at your wife
when she asked you to go to therapy?
- Because it costs a lot of money and I didn't think my problem was that bad.
- So, you're still driving violently,
sometimes even unconsciously.
Didn't you ever think that you
might have anger management issue,
when you saw yourself yelling at someone?
- Only behind the wheels... - So at that moment,
you feel like you can't control your anger.
- Not at that moment, but...
- After when you get out of the car.
- I actually got a consultation with a psychologist
because of anger management issues.
You said that it costs a lot of money,
but you can get insurance coverage.
- Can you?
- Yes, you can. - So it's not so costly then.
- It really helped me.
So whenever I got angry
while driving a car or
walking down the street,
I became self-aware and
learned how to handle my anger.
- The important things is that
when you swear while driving,
the only people who hears that are your wife and kids.
Isn't that upsetting?
All the damage is on your family.
So if you spend all your energy and time
on picking fights and chasing other people...
- Hey, Dong-yeob.
I think you're angry right now.
- It's just heartbreaking.
Dong-yeob's angry because
the husband didn't change himself
when he has a pregnant wife and they have a sorrowful memory.
- I think the husband was really lucky
not to be injured a lot.
- Yes. - That's right.
- This is a big deal.
- You could destroy someone else's family
in the blink of an eye.
I hope that you would take today's opportunity
to change your driving habits for the safety of your own family
and other families out there.
- One last word from the wife.
- My mother-in-law couldn't come because of her work,
but she told me to not to expect too much
because he said that he would change so many times but he didn't.
But I came here today with a hope
that my husband can change.
Our third child will be born in August
and that'll make him a father of three children.
So I hope that he would think about our family more...
- You wish he would change, right? - Yes.
I hope that he would change.
I want to get his promise.
- What promise?
- A promise that he will drive more carefully for the family and
that he won't make us feel nervous.
- Right.
- Please press the button if you think this is a concern for the wife.
Min-joon..
- We'll ask the audience to press it later. - You don't have to hide it.
You can just press it.
- Really? - Yes.
Is this a concern?
- You should take off your socks to press the button.
- Give me a warning the next time.
- I think it's a concern too.
Fighting and swearing in front of the kids
can make them mentally unstable.
- I think it's a concern.
I think he needs to fix it.
- I think it's a concern for sure.
I don't even have to think about it.
- Please press the button
if you think this is a concern.
A lot of people...
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop.
- Personally, I think that
the husband will be able to change.
Seeing that he quit drinking as well, I think he has a strong will.
- But this is not easy to do alone.
This... - He needs help from his family.
- I don't think the wife should just nag at him.
Instead, you could say "Honey, I'm scared."
For example...
- He would smash his brake.
- Tae-jun, do you want a piece of me?
Please say something to your wife.
- It's my fault that you're so stressed out
because of my driving.
I'll try to change for you, our kids and my parents from now on.
But you know they say that people cannot change suddenly,
so I'll gradually try to change.
- Do you want to apologize to anyone
you picked a fight with on the road by any chance?
For real.
When you could've been more considerate.
- I'm sorry to all the drivers that I've caused trouble with.
I'll try to give the right of way
and not drive violently.
- How many votes did it get? Please show the result.
- Out of 200 votes.
It's over 100 votes.
- 157 votes?
I think we got a lot of votes.
- Isn't it 197?
How many votes did we get?
157 votes.
- 157 votes.
That's a lot.
Thank you.
- Here is our next concern.
'Life is too difficult'
Hello.
My name is Kwon Hyung-bin and I'm a 12 year-old student from Jecheon.
- He's 12 years old and he thinks that life is difficult?
- I'm sending this concern because I find life to be too difficult.
- He's the same age as my son.
- "Hyung-bin, mommy needs to go to work. Can you do the dishes,
and hang the laundry?"
"Oh."
"Can you put the rice inside the rice cooker as well?"
- I have to do housework constantly.
- "Hyung-bin, where are you?"
- "I just got off school."
- "Can you come home early and feed your siblings?"
"Mom has to go to work."
- I have to take care of my 7-year old brother and 6-year old sister.
Why do I have to do this all by myself?
It's because I have to be the dad figure in this house
after my parents got divorced last year.
"Can you give me a piggy-back?"
"No, me first!"
I get so tired from giving piggy-backs to my younger siblings.
"Mom, can we eat some stew?"
A 12-year old asking for some stew.
Not fried chicken,
but a stew.
- No, your siblings want fried chicken.
- Mom, can I play games?
- Let your siblings play.
- I have to put my siblings first for everything from meals to games.
I feel so unhappy every day.
What should I do?
Wow...
What do you think?
- A 12-year old should be loved
and cared by his mother. - He's only in 5th grade.
- I feel sad because it seems like he's too mature for his age.
- Minzy, you debuted at an early age. - At 16 years old.
- Then you probably heard that you were very mature for your age, right?
- I heard that a lot. Some people said that I look like I'm 40.
- 40 years old?
The age of 40.
- The age of 40.
- I had to do a lot of things on my own when I was young,
because both of my parents worked.
I think it's a concern because
he needs his mother's caring too.
- I'm worried that if he keeps suppressing his frustration,
because he thinks he has to act like a father figure,
he might drive violently when he grows up. - That's right.
While he's driving.
- You never know when he'll explode. - Yes.
- Shall we meet him?
- This is a concern of a 12-year old
who is acting as the father of the family after his parents' divorce.
- Please come out.
- So cute.
- He's having fun on the slide.
- Very handsome. - He's cute.
He's handsome.
- It's a broadcasting studio!
- Please introduce yourself.
- Please introduce yourself first.
- Hello.
My name is Kwon Hyung-bin. I'm 12 years old and I'm from Jecheon.
- Good, good.
- You said that
life is too difficult.
Is it true that
you find life so difficult already? - Right.
- Yes. - Why?
- It's hard to be the father figure.
- A father figure?
Why do you have to be the father figure?
Can you tell us more specifically?
- To be specific, in June of 2016,
my father didn't come home.
And 4 months later, mom told me that they got divorced.
So I cried for 3 days.
- You cried for 3 days.
- That must've been upsetting. - I was very upset.
- Right.
That can be upsetting.
- How are you acting as the father figure in the house?
- I wash the rice. - You wash the rice.
- While mom is out...
- I make ramen for the siblings
and make fried eggs.
I do the laundry and dishes frequently. - You know how to use the laundry machine?
- I learned how to use it.
- You learned it? - He learned it.
- Do you really give piggy-backs to all your siblings?
- Yes.
I do it a lot and it's very tiring.
- Of course it is. You're still a small boy.
- What's the hardest thing for you?
- I really like Korean food, like Korean sausage.
- You're too young for that.
- He likes those foods already. - And?
- But my siblings like fast food.
- Of course. - Like chicken and pizza.
- So I have to eat what they want.
And I have to let the siblings play games first.
- Your mom tells you to? - Yes.
- You have to give way to your siblings. - What else?
- I think you might have to
give way to your siblings
when you go to buy something.
- Do you have to give way there too? - Yes.
- What do you want to buy the most?
- Lego.
Last time...
- You really want to buy that.
- I went to the mall with my siblings,
and my siblings all bought expensive things,
so I couldn't buy Lego.
- Let's meet his mom.
She must have a lot of concerns too.
Hello.
- Hello.
- Your son thinks that he is the father figure of the family.
What do you think?
- After I got divorced,
I've been feeling my husband's void a lot.
So Hyung-bin helps me out a lot.
- Do you rely on him?
- Yes.
I tell him that I'll love him and care for him like he's my husband.
- Really?
- I talk to him and
rely on him a lot.
- Hearing that at his age...
- It can be a burden.
- And it makes him think that he should act more maturely. - Right.
How do you feel when your mom says that?
- I feel burdens on my shoulder.
- You don't know what she means but it's burdensome, right?
- Yes.
- So Hyung-bin is doing all the housework
and caring for the siblings as well?
- I work 3 to 4 jobs.
- You work a lot. - To raise the kids.
- I sell flowers and
I'm a part-time instructor.
I also work part time as a child educator.
- You're hard working. - She works a lot.
- She has three children. - I know.
- So I have to ask Hyung-bin for help.
I ask him to hang the laundry when I'm washing the dishes.
And after I get home from work,
I'm really tired and
my youngest throws a lot of tantrums.
It's too much for me to handle
So... - Because he can.
- Yes.
- Then can't you let him do what he wants sometimes,
like playing games, as a reward? - Right.
- I sometimes let him, but I tell him
to read a book and study on his free time.
- He doesn't have free time.
- After doing all the housework and reading a book and studying,
he'll just be tired.
- Yes, he wouldn't have much time.
Right.
- He doesn't have time.
- You really are the head of the household.
Does your mom compliment you a lot?
- She does, but sometimes she doesn't know how I feel.
- She compliments you but doesn't know how you feel.
- It's upsetting.
- I was cleaning up the mess that my siblings made,
and mom said "Did you make this mess?" - So upsetting.
- You should've told her then.
Why didn't you tell her that it was your siblings who did it?
- I thought my siblings would get scolded really bad then.
- So you got scolded instead?
- Wow. - So thoughtful.
- You didn't tell her at all.
Did you know about this?
- I didn't know.
I think something like that happened very frequently.
Whenever there was trouble,
I think Hyung-bin was the always one to be blamed.
- She's tired as well. - Right.
- So she can't think very deeply
and just says what she thinks.
- As this becomes routine,
your son thinks that he has to bear it all because mom is lonely and tired.
But I think that he came here today
because he wanted to talk and become closer with his mom.
- Such a good boy.
- I hope you can realize many things today.
A co-worker of the mom
is here at the studio today.
Hello. Welcome.
- Hello.
- Were you aware of this concern?
- Yes, I can understand him.
He's very mature and responsible
for taking care of his siblings when he's only 12 years old.
But his mom is also going through a very difficult time.
- Right.
- When I see her talking to Hyung-bin,
it seems like they're friends.
So she relies on him a lot.
- She talks to him like he's her husband. - That's right.
- When do you think she has the most difficult time?
- Since she's working multiple jobs and she's very busy,
she can't just leave work and go home when her kids are sick.
I think that's most heartbreaking for her.
Sometimes she gets sick too.
- Right, right.
- She has to take care of the kids even when she's sick.
I think it's really hard for her
when she has to work and take care of the kids all by herself.
- Say everything that you wanted to.
- What made you the most upset?
- I actually felt resentful once.
- A 12-year old knows what resentment is? - What it's like to be resentful?
- A 12-year old knows resentment?
- It's okay.
- All of my friends are always going out with their families,
but my family can't because mom's working all the time.
- You just want to spend time with your family, right?
- What do you want to do the most with your mom?
- I want to ride the bike, travel, and get some fresh air.
- A 12-year old usually doesn't say "Grab some fresh air."
- When were you jealous of your friends the most?
- When getting some fresh air.
- When getting some fresh air?
- When my friends bring souvenirs and show photos from their trips.
When I see a family that
are happy and talk a lot with each other.
- I see.
That's unfortunate.
- Mom, what do you think?
Did you know about his concern?
- He begged me once to go to the waterpark.
I think he begged me for about 2 weeks,
but I couldn't afford to
go to the waterpark for 4 people.
- Right.
- It's difficult.
- It's also physically difficult
to take 3 kids to the waterpark all by yourself.
- That's right.
- So I couldn't think about going,
and Hyung-bin said
"Can we not go there because we don't have a father?"
- Some people might think that
you could work less and spend more time with the kids,
because they don't know your financial situation right now.
Does your ex-husband send any child support?
A little?
- A little, but not enough for our living. - Right.
- It's not enough.
- I think he's having some financial difficulties too.
He says that he might not be able to send any support.
- None?
- Yes.
- Let me ask you something.
Did you think that you couldn't go to the waterpark because your dad wasn't around?
Why is that? - Yes, because we didn't have money.
- Right.
- Is there something you know?
Your mom is having financial difficulties.
- She has a lot of debt.
- Debt?
- She has debt? - She has debt?
- Yes, and it's hard for her to pay off her debt.
- How did you know that she had debt?
- Right.
- I heard from mom.
- Your mom told you? - Did you hear her talk on the phone?
- Did you tell your son about your debt?
- Yes, I did.
- Why?
- You really think of him as your husband.
Why did you tell him that?
- Usually, parents try to hide
their financial problems to their kids.
- Sometimes, he wants to buy things
and I need to persuade him
when I can't afford to buy it.
So I have to explain to him why.
- Right.
- So I keep explaining to him.
- It might be better to tell him.
- Some financial experts say that
your children should know how your
financial situation is to a certain extent. - That's right.
- They say that it's not just a bad thing
for them to find out when they're young.
My grandfather had a large debt
that he couldn't pay off,
but I paid it off for him
when I grew up and earned money.
So you might be able to do that too.
- Have you ever thought that
you should help her out financially when you grow up?
- I saw elder people collecting cardboard boxes on the streets,
and I thought if I should do it too.
- Make money by collecting cardboard boxes?
- I really like Taekwondo.
So I want to succeed... - And be on the national team.
- Last time, I went on a competition
because there was prize money. - Did you?
And?
- I came in first place but I didn't get the prize money.
- Why not? - Why is that?
- I think it went to the academy that won the most gold medals.
- Are you good at Taekwondo?
- I started in 3rd grade and I have a black belt now.
- Wow.
- A black belt. - You must be good then.
- Right.
- Did your son become mature
after you got divorced?
Or was he different
since he was young?
- I think he knows that I'm suffering.
- He notices everything.
- You should be so proud of him.
- He's the same age as my son, but he is very different.
- My son is in 1st grade and
my daughter is in 4th grade, but they're so different than him.
My son and daughter
were fighting so much.
Someone gave my son
a small robot figure as a gift.
And he was so glad
when he got the gift.
When he asked my daughter "What should I give to you?"
he said "Give her punishment."
For real.
So...
- Really?
- Really.
- "Giver her punishment."
- But he's talking so calmly about his siblings...
They're so different.
- Other than financial issues,
what do you talk about the most with your mom?
- We talk about dad and my siblings.
- What do you talk about dad?
- Mom told me that dad doesn't
seem to care about us too much
I think he really didn't care about us too.
- What about your siblings?
- Yikes.
- There was a talent show,
so I called my dad and
asked him to come,
but he didn't come.
- So he's not interested in you.
- How do you feel when you hear that?
- I like talking with mom,
but I get upset when
I hear bad things about dad.
- Right.
- You just want to talk about good things, right?
- Yes.
- I can understand your concern,
but isn't it too harsh
too harsh to tell your kids that
their dad is not interested in them?
- But something like this
might keep happening in our lives,
so I thought that
I had to tell him.
- Mom might have some opinions too,
but I think it's better to leave it
to your kids to decide later.
I'm saying that you might not need to
keep telling him that dad is a bad person.
- It might not be because he's not interested.
- Yes. - That's right.
- He might be sorry to call you so often
when you're living with mom now.
It's a very complicated issue,
so don't just think that your dad does not care about you, okay?
- Did you know that Hyung-bin
was worrying about your financial situation like a husband?
- Yes. - All the time!
- Yes, I knew.
Hyung-bin is in 5th grade now,
but I never gave allowance to him.
- Allowance... - Never?
- Not even a dollar a week?
- No.
- And?
- He never asks for money nor spends it.
- So he doesn't spend any money?
- What does he do when
he gets money from somewhere?
Then what does he do with it?
- He gives it to me to save.
- To save.
- Why don't you spend money?
- I don't need anything.
- You should eat the Korean sausage stew.
- And buy Lego.
- He doesn't want to spend his own money to buy it.
- Yes.
- That's possible.
- Did he ever act up to you?
- Not really.
- He's so nice.
- Such a nice boy.
- I think he's very considerate. - Your son?
- Sometimes when I'm sleeping because I'm so tired,
the kids would come and bother me,
asking me to bring them stuff.
Then he does it for them.
He tells them not to wake me up.
He says "Come here, I'll give it to you."
- Actually, I think...
Don't you think that you should be a little bit stronger
since you have such a nice son?
- I'm actually on medication since before I got divorced.
- Medication for what? - Depression?
- Yes, depression.
- Because she's also suffering a lot.
- It's really hard for me to take care of my kids.
- You're feeling helpless.
- Yes, and they said that I shouldn't feel helpless.
- But you should still try to cheer up.
- He's still a young boy,
So I'll ask him a question that's more suitable for elementary school students.
What do you like the most?
- Taekwondo.
- Taekwondo?
- Taekwondo.
You like it because you're good at it.
- He even won the gold medal, let's see. - Yes.
- Hyung-bin, Hyung-bin.
- Hyung-bin.
- He needs to change into his uniform first. - Get into his uniform.
- Is this the Poomsae?
Are you good at doing the Poomsae?
- A round of applause.
- Wow.
- Please come to the center.
- Wow.
- Come to the center.
- Looking good, Hyung-bin.
- Let's do the Poomsae first. - Look in front.
What are you going to show us?
Which Poomsae?
- The hand knife twist trunk block. - The hand knife twist trunk block?
- Let's give a shout of concentration.
- Let me watch this.
- Hoy!
- Wow.
- He's doing it properly. -tae-kwon!
I'm sorry.
- A kick.
- Good.
- Three people needs to hold this?
- Should I hold it?
- Can you?
- Sol-bin?
- And Minzy.
- Where should I hold it? - Mom needs to do it?
- Hyung-bin, you should let mom rest and ask for them to hold it up for you.
- Please take your position.
- You'll thank me when you grow up.
- Straight?
- Straight.
- Just a little.
- Just a little?
Like this?
- Do a shout of concentration.
- Shout of concentration.
- Hoy!
- Try again.
- Your toes.
- It's okay.
- We'll hold it for you.
- You need to hold this very well.
- He wants to be good.
- You need to hold it right in the middle.
- We'll hold it.
- The first one is the lowest,
right?
And it gets higher,
doesn't it?
- No.
They should all be the same height.
- Oh, I'm sorry.
Mom, please hold this.
- Do you want it higher?
- Please come here. - Come here?
- Hoy!
- Oh...
- What are you doing?
- Come on.
- Hurry!
Hoy!
Hyung-bin.
Good job, Hyung-bin. - You should break it yourself!
- Yes.
- You're supposed to break it
if he doesn't.
Isn't it obvious?
- Let's toss Hyung-bin,
and
- Why are you doing this to me?
- Give him a piggy-back.
Give him a piggy-back.
Get on his back!
Get on his back.
How do you feel?
- 2 pieces? You'll do 2 pieces?
- Wait, wait.
- Can you do two? - Can you?
- Two.
- Just hit in the middle.
- Hyung-bin, you need to do a shout of concentration.
- No, it comes last.
- Hyung-bin, you can
hold onto it like this. - I'll just do it.
Hoy!
- You did it.
- Ta-da.
Lego! - It's Lego!
- What is this?
- It's a gift.
- What is it?
- A gift.
- Hyung-bin, you said that you wanted to buy Lego.
- Isn't this expensive?
- Did Tae-jun buy it?
- Congratulations.
It's a gift for you, Hyung-bin. - An applause.
- Because you did good.
- How is it?
- Do you like it? - Yes.
- Is this what you like? - Yes.
I like Lego.
- This is the most difficult one,
so that it'll take forever for you to finish it.
- I don't think it'll take forever.
- He might keep doing Taekwondo if he wants to buy Lego.
- He looked very fierce when he was doing Taekwondo.
- He was very speedy and sturdy.
- His friends will be jealous.
Do you have a girlfriend?
- Yes?
- You do?
- But we broke up.
- Wait, wait.
He broke up.
- Why did you break up?
- Pardon?
- Why did you break up? - Why did you break up?
- She moved.
She moved away.
- It seems like mom didn't know.
Did you not know? - It's shocking.
- I didn't know that Hyung-bin had a girlfriend...
- He broke up with her
because she moved.
- Oh...
- Do you miss her?
- Your mom thought of you as her husband.
- You're cheating on her.
- Why? - Is that okay?
- Dad was around back then.
- Now... - Dad was around.
- How do you feel about your present?
- I love it. - Okay.
- He loves it.
- Hyung-bin, are you happy now?
- Yes.
- Do you feel better that you said everything that's on your mind?
- I feel like all the weight has been lifted.
- Like the weight has been lifted.
- Okay.
- Is there anything else you want to say to your mom?
- Please say something to your mom.
- Mom, I hope that you can adjust your schedule,
so that we can go out to grab some fresh air together.
I love you.
- Guests, please press the button.
- I don't think it's a concern.
- For Hyung-bin? - Why?
- Well...
I think it's something that
we should be cheering him on.
I hope he grows up to be a good and strong man soon.
- Okay.
- He'll remember everything when he grows up. - Of course.
- I don't think it's a concern,
because they will find a way to understand each other more
and become a happier family.
- I don't think it's a concern.
I think he's growing up
as a good boy.
- Ji-hye.
- I think it's a concern because
Hyung-bin sent us this concern.
I'll buy you a bowl of Korean sausage stew later.
- Please press the button.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Okay. -stop.
I just hope that mom
won't be too depressed. - Right.
- People become brighter if they're with some who's bright as well.
On the other hand, even the most cheerful person will become darker
beside someone who's very depressed.
I hope that mom will cheer up and try to laugh more.
Please say something to your son.
- I hope that Hyung-bin will express his feelings to me.
I'll try to me a mom that can understand and communicate better.
- Please tell him that you'll cheer up. - I'll cheer up.
- Hyung-bin, are you glad?
Great.
I wonder how many votes we got.
Please show the result.
- How many votes did we get?
- 84 votes.
- Thank you, Hyung-bin.
- Good-bye, Hyung-bin.
- Thank you.
- Hope you and mom will have great times together.
- Play the Lego if you have troubles.
- What a good boy. - You can go sit beside your mom.
- She's living a suffocating life every day as if she's trapped in a prison.
'Suffocating love'
Hello.
I'm a 22-year old female living in Jeju Island.
Spring is here with the yellow rape flowers all over Jeju Island.
But why would it matter?
I feel like I'm in hell every day.
It's because of my mother.
Rrrring.
"Hey."
"It's 7 pm, you should come home."
You should come home?
- But it's only 7 pm?
- Rrrring.
"What are you doing?"
"It's been 10 minutes already." "Come home now."
- Rrrring.
"You bastard."
"Come home right now!"
My mom is obsessed with me.
She swears at me even when I'm just a little late.
If I don't answer her calls, she calls my friends.
"Hi, are you with my daughter right now?"
"Can you send her home right now?"
Rrrring.
"Hey, are you ignoring me?"
"Send her home right now!"
You know...
This is something... - Calling your friend.
- This is something you never want to experience in your life...
It's so embarrassing.
A path to being a loner. - That's right.
- It was driving me crazy
that she even called my friends.
I decided to take action.
Rrrring.
"Where are..."
"Mom, I'll be late today."
"I'm hanging up!"
- Wow.
- And I went home at 12 pm.
As soon as I got home... 'Slap!'.
- Wow.
Really? - 'Slap'
- Her mom slapped her?
- She slapped me right away.
- Oh no.
- Please help me
escape from my mom.
Even if she's the daughter, calling her from 7 pm when she's 22 years old...
And slapping her because she came home at 12 pm.
- What about you, Minzy?
Have you ever been hit by your parents?
- When I did something wrong,
I was hit with a twig. - On the palm of the hand.
- I was never slapped in the face. - Right.
I was never slapped by my parents either.
- Our guest came all the way from Jeju Island in her search for freedom.
Please come out.
- Hello-o-o.
Hello-o-o. O-o.
- Please take your shoes off.
- Please introduce yourself.
- Hello.
My name is Park Joo-hyun. I'm 22 years old and from Jeju Island.
- Did your mom really slap you? - Really?
- I got so angry one day,
and I told her that I'll be late.
And she slapped me as soon as I got home.
- What did you do after she slapped you?
Didn't you say anything?
- I didn't know what to say.
So I just stayed still.
- It's not like you were drunk.
- Do you have a curfew?
- My curfew is at 9 pm.
But my mom would start calling me from 7 pm.
She calls me in 10-minute intervals.
-10-minute intervals?
- You can get anywhere in the island within 2 hours.
Was she like "Did you get off the island?"
- "Are you out of this island?"
- Why does she keep calling you at 7 pm when your curfew is at 9 pm?
- I really don't understand why.
I don't get it. - Didn't you ask her why?
"Why do you start calling me from 7 pm when my curfew is at 9 pm?"
- One time, I hung up while talking to my mom on the phone.
I confronted her on why she was calling me from 7 pm.
She called me at 8 pm and said
that she came to where I was.
- Why? - I just got the chills.
- I was near the City Hall and she told me that she was by the City Hall too,
and told me to come out.
So I got really scared.
And I hid with my friends.
- Did you get in a big trouble in the past?
- Right.
She must have a reason for being that way?
- Do you have a criminal record?
- I never got in trouble in my life.
I never talked back to mom.
That time when I went home at 12 pm was the only time I rebelled.
- That's it?
- That's not even rebelling.
Coming home at 12 pm once...
- Do you have any siblings?
- I'm the eldest daughter.
- Eldest daughter.
- Is your mom like that to your younger sibling too?
- No.
My parents got divorced when I was in high school, so my younger brother...
- He lives with your dad?
- Yes, he lives with my dad and I'm living with mom in Jeju Island.
I think that's when it started getting worse. - She's obsessing.
- It must be hard on her too. - Right.
- Let's meet her mom now.
Hello.
- Why did you do that to Joo-hyun?
- Because I love her.
- Mom.
- Do you know how much I love you?
- Don't you think that you're confining her?
- Right.
- No, I don't think so.
But you're calling her at 7 pm and telling her to come home.
- Doesn't everyone do that?
- No.
- Mom...
- Please put your hand up if you do this.
- No one. - There's no one.
- Why do you keep calling her from 7 pm when her curfew is at 9 pm,
in 10-minute intervals? - Why do you do that?
- It's obsession.
- I have to keep calling her
because she misses her curfew a lot.
So I call her in advance.
- How would you feel if your daughter
keeps calling you every 10 minutes while you are out?
When you're having a good time.
- "Mom, where are you?"
"Why aren't you coming home?"
- Did your daughter ever get into trouble
when she went out with her friends?
- No, she didn't. - Exactly.
- Then why do you do that?
- She's an adult now.
- Young people meet at 12 pm these days.
- I don't get it.
Why do they do that?
- Well, they work,
and they go to school.
- I don't know...
I think she needs to be by my side. - Until when?
- Until how old?
- Until when she gets married...
- When she gets married? - Wow.
- But you don't know when she'll be married.
- Don't worry. - I'm just nervous.
I feel nervous when she's out. - That's possible.
- When I was young,
my brother told me that he was going out,
and I got a phone call the next day that he has passed away.
- Really? - So shocking.
- That was so traumatic.
- Your older brother? - Yes, my older brother.
That happened when I was 21 years old.
So I feel nervous when she's out.
I feel like that will happen again.
- Then did you always go home early
when you were young?
- No.
- What?
- You didn't go home early?
Weren't you a bad girl then?
- I actually get nervous too
when she goes out with a friend.
And if I call her, she never picks up.
- She doesn't answer your calls either?
- I trust myself.
Even when I'm out.
- What does that mean?
- Do you think that your daughter doesn't trust herself?
- She still seems like a kid to me.
- You still see her as a kid. - Yes.
- But it doesn't make sense.
Even if you had a trauma,
you're saying that it's okay for you but not okay for your daughter. - Yes.
Look.
If she has to come home at 7 pm, how can she make a boyfriend?
- She still does everything.
- Do you have a boyfriend?
- Yes, I do. - She does.
- Poor boyfriend?
What do you do until 7 pm?
- Your boyfriend must have a lot of complaints.
- My mom likes watching movies,
so I take her out to movie theaters and spend time with her a lot.
But she wants me to be with her every day.
If I don't answer her call when I'm out on a date with my boyfriend,
she would call my boyfriend. - What?
To your boyfriend?
- I was eating dinner with my boyfriend and his aunt.
- With your boyfriend's aunt? - Yes, and she called me.
She told me to come home right away. - What time was it?
- 7 pm.
- The problematic 7 pm. - Right.
- So he didn't answer her call too.
And she texted my boyfriend.
"Are you ignoring me?"
"Send Joo-hyun home right now."
- Oh no.
- I felt sorry to my boyfriend.
- And to the aunt. - And I was sorry to his aunt too.
- So you've never kissed your boyfriend?
- No.
- We used to kiss after 9 pm.
- Don't lie.
- Wait... - It was after 6:30 pm.
- Why did you send that text to her boyfriend?
- To her boyfriend. - When she was with her boyfriend.
- I don't remember.
- Really... - Is this a hearing?
- It's not like I don't let them meet.
- That's what you just did.
- Texting him and saying "Are you ignoring me?"
that's not letting them meet.
- She's always with her boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is away in India for 40 days.
And when he's here, she's always spending time with him.
- But that's what you do at her age.
- I wish she would spend half her time with him and half her time with me.
- Why?
- Are you her boyfriend? - Wow.
- Will she be able to get married?
- Don't you think?
Really, think about it...
When she grows up...
- I hope that she gets married fast.
- Really?
- I hope that she gets married
and I can live with her.
- But she's all grown up.
- I think she might come on the show again after 5 years.
- Her husband would be sitting here.
- What else does she restrict you on?
- Money.
- Money? - Money?
- Why money?
- I knew that my mom was having financial difficulties,
so I started working part-time jobs since I was in high school.
- Such a good girl.
- And she would check my bank account.
She would ask me how I spent my money.
And she would even tell me "What have you done for me?"
That makes me really angry.
Sometimes, my payment might be delayed
depending on the circumstances. - That's right.
- But she would call my employer. - Your employer?
- What does she say?
- She asks them why they haven't paid me yet.
She looks like a moneylender.
It's like she's rushing them. - So...
- Checking the bank account...
- I can't control myself and
I tell them to send the money. - Mom has anger management issue.
- It's not like she told you first,
but you checked her bank account first.
- I just want to know
where she spent her money. - She's not an elementary school student.
- Because she can't take care of her money. - She can't?
- If she makes $700,
I think she spends it all on her boyfriend and friends. - $700?
- My boyfriend spends his money too, but she thinks that I'm the only one spending.
- My boyfriend spends money when he earns money from work.
- But why doesn't she have any money?
- So frustrating.
- But how much do you expect her to save up from a part-time job?
Even coffees cost a lot these days. - Right.
- I just want her to spend her money wisely
when she earned it so hardly.
- She's an adult now, so she should manage her money herself.
Even if she makes a mistake, it's all a lesson.
It's a learning process.
If you keep butting in,
there's nothing she can do on her own. - That's right.
- Why did you move to Jeju Island?
- Because of my sister.
- Because of your sister?
- Yes.
Let's meet her aunt.
Hello.
- Hello.
- Can you understand your niece's concern?
- Yes, I can.
I actually experienced it myself.
- She did it even to you? - Yes.
I asked for her help
when I opened my restaurant.
She would nag about everything
and she would even get annoyed with her nephews.
So I asked her,
"Why are you doing that?"
I told her not to care too much,
and she got so angry that she didn't even let me talk.
- Does she lose her temper easily?
- Yes.
- Anger management problem? - Anger management issues.
- Because she called her daughter at 7 pm
and suddenly told her to come home.
Those are very sudden actions.
On the other hand, can you understand your sister's position as well?
- Yes.
My sister used to feel very lonely even when she was young.
Our dad was sick for a long time,
so mom had to go out to work
and my sister was the one who took care of the sick dad.
- Like a mother. - She didn't have a life.
And she has heart arrhythmia,
and sometimes she has seizures.
I was so surprised,
and I had to call the 911 once.
- It happens when she gets angry
and her heart pounds really fast.
So even if I get really mad at mom,
I don't show that to mom.
To avoid her seizures. - You were being considerate.
- I saw her in seizure a lot, so...
- You shouldn't get so angry.
- This might be a private question,
but did you obsess over your daughter before you got divorced?
- No, I didn't.
Her dad was actually really obsessed with me.
He would call me 50 times
when I missed his call.
So I suffered from depression
and I had to go to the hospital.
- You can understand her a little, right?
- She tells me that she's lonely and to give her some attention,
but I'm actually lonely as well.
One time, I fell down the stairs
and I ruptured my ligament.
My leg kept hurting,
so I asked mom to come to the hospital with me to get a scan.
And she told me to go get it on my own if I had money,
because she didn't have the money.
- So you were upset. - That was upsetting.
I'm trying to get employed right now,
and I could talk to mom about it.
But she just says
"I don't know what to say."
So it's really frustrating for me
because I have to deal with it on my own. - You can't communicate with her.
- Yes.
- I think her mom is spreading
her hurt feelings to her daughter.
Her sorrow. - Right.
- "And you should understand it."
You should see her as a human being,
but you're thinking of her as your belonging.
Sometimes you will treat her like a baby
and sometimes you expect her to act like a grown up.
She needs to be out communicating with lots of people.
That's how she'll grow as a member of the society
and eventually succeed.
But you're cutting her away from society.
You're preventing her from being out in this world.
Isn't that right?
- Right.
- Looking back from this opportunity,
I think that's what I've been doing to her.
- It's good if you realized it. - I just realized that.
I think I should've talked to her more reasonably on the phone,
but I lose my temper easily, so...
I just get really angry right away,
so we couldn't have a proper conversation.
And she would just listen to me.
- She wasn't just listening to you.
She was holding down her anger,
because she was worried about your health.
She's a really good girl. - I think she's such a good girl.
- Really.
- I think she's really nice.
- I hope that you'll start making
small adjustments that you're here today.
How about extending her curfew a little?
- 10 pm? 11 pm?
- 11 pm. - 11 pm.
- That's just when she finished watching the drama.
- I think her curfew should be at 10 pm.
- 10 pm?
- You can watch a drama at 10 pm... - It was 9 pm until last year,
and I'm extending it until 10 pm because she turned 22 years old.
- That's a lot considering her personality. - 10 pm it is.
What about calling?
- I won't call her now.
- You won't call her? - Really?
- I won't.
- How is this?
- Mom...
- Not calling her.
- Her curfew shortens by 10 minutes every time she misses her curfew.
And every time you call her,
her curfew extends by 10 minutes.
- That's good. - Okay, that's great.
Nice, nice.
Great.
- Are you okay with it?
- Yes.
- Min-joon.
Is it a concern or not
- No.
I think they'll work it out.
It'll be okay.
- I don't think it's a concern if they follow the rule.
- Sol-bin.
- If you restrict someone really hard,
they might want to rebel more.
It might backlash later. - Right.
- I could really relate to this concern,
and I think it's a concern.
- Please press the button if you think this is a concern.
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Okay.
- Stop.
- Did this help you?
Talking with your daughter in front of many people.
- What Young-ja said touched my heart.
I think that's how I've been to my daughter.
- Right, right.
- I'm really sorry.
I'm sorry.
- Please don't cry.
- I love you more than anyone,
and you're all I have.
Of course, I love my Jun-ho as well...
Let's live happily together.
- Let's see how many votes we got.
'A dangerous man' got 157 votes.
Let's see the result.
- 'Suffocating love'
Huh?
I think it's over 100 votes.
Is it 157?
- 137.
- So, 'A dangerous man' takes this week's victory.
We'll give out a prize to the winner.
Congratulations.
- For a healthy nation without concerns.
- We are always on your side.
- Thank you.